Posts by Lynn Zakeri

IRL… The Transition to College 2018 In 2010 I made my first Powerpoint as a clinical therapist in private practice  It was a presentation on the transition from high school to college, and I had been hired to present at my alma mater, New Trier High School.  I gave the same presentation again the following spring…

Sometimes, when something is meaningful to me, I see it and hear it more frequently.  I may be more tuned in to it, or it may be a coincidence.  Either way, this new year, it is something I want to keep thinking about.  I continue to hear about, see, and think about the difference between…

I had the agonizing and amazing opportunity to redo my website with someone who I think is very talented.  In the process, I had to answer questions I had never considered before.  What is my specialty?  My areas of expertise?  My ideal client?  What kind of therapy do I do? You can imagine his frustration…

I wanted to thank you for subscribing to my blog.  I have moved the blog to a “page”/tab on my new website, hopefully for easier navigation.  I am excited about the new look of www.lynnzakeri.com and have been doing a lot of reflecting on my work.  A new entry to my blog will publish soon- in…

I have had some opportunities in the past few months to represent myself as an expert. I don’t shy away from these opportunities because out of all the times in life I fall, the one thing I am most confident in is my work. Which is why it is sometimes so difficult to apply what…

Why would someone go to therapy?  Because of significant traumas, severe depression, a personality disorder (borderline, bipolar, schizophrenia)?  Or because of debilitating anxiety and panic attacks?  Oftentimes it is not so severe.  Perhaps it is more of a feeling of being stressed and overwhelmed, or a little sad and not sure why.  Maybe it’s grief, or figuring out a big…

Confirm or Empower. I never considered these two words as opposites before I was the parent of a twelve year old. I grew up a pleaser. I come from generations of them. I can be who you need me to be and you don’t even have to know what you need from me. I can…

Marriage has been on my mind a lot lately. Not only because of the couples I see who work hard to better theirs, but also because I am in one. I learned in college that 50% of marriages end in divorce. I also know that some marriages are far from happy. What makes a marriage…

I am my toughest critic.  It took me a lifetime to figure that out, but yet it still doesn’t stop me from continuing to be just that.  I am also quick to recognize self-critics in others, especially in my clients who are often given my own special diagnosis of “hard on yourself”.  I am fortunate because my clients…

Why would someone go to therapy?  Because of significant traumas, severe depression, a personality disorder (borderline, bipolar, schizophrenia)?  Or because of debilitating anxiety and panic attacks?  Perhaps it is more of a feeling of being stressed and overwhelmed, or a little sad and not sure why.  Maybe it’s grief or figuring out a big decision or developing executive functioning…